At 80, most people are already enjoying a peaceful retirement, surrounded by family and memories. But for Carmen Rodríguez, her reality is very different. This hardworking and resilient woman, who was the childhood nanny of famous British rapper Big Shaq (real name Michael Dapaah), still cleans houses for a living.
Carmen cared for Michael when he was just a toddler. At the time, she was a newly arrived immigrant, seeking financial stability while raising her own children. With patience, love, and discipline, she became a maternal figure to him, teaching him values such as humility, respect, and hard work.
For years, Michael didn’t know what had become of Carmen. Life took him down different paths until he found fame thanks to his viral hit “Man’s Not Hot.” It was during a television interview that he casually mentioned “Mrs. Carmen,” his beloved nanny. A group of fans mobilized on social media to find her… and they succeeded.
The reunion was emotional. Michael, with tears in his eyes, hugged Carmen after more than two decades apart. Upon learning that she was still working cleaning houses at such an advanced age, he didn’t hesitate to act. In an unexpected act of kindness, Big Shaq decided to pay for Carmen’s full retirement, in addition to giving her a fully furnished home in a quiet neighborhood.
“I can’t allow the woman who cared for me like a son to live like this,” Michael said through sobs. “She was like a second mother to me.”
Images of the moment went viral, touching the hearts of thousands around the world. Many praised the artist’s humility and gratitude, highlighting the importance of remembering those who were with us during our most vulnerable moments.
Carmen now lives peacefully, surrounded by flowers, books, and Michael’s frequent visits. “I never imagined someone would remember me like this,” she said with a smile. “I always knew Michael had a big heart.”
This story not only reminds us of the power of gratitude, but also how an act of love can change someone’s life… even after so many years.